Abuse Information
Preventing Abuse
Child abuse is a problem that concerns us all! Can it be prevented? YES! Child abuse and neglect can be prevented or stopped through the efforts of schools, neighbors, families and the community.
Help us prevent child abuse, here is what you can do:
- Understand the causes of child abuse and learn all you can about abuse and neglect.
- Learn to identify the warning signs that a child is being abused.
- Report any known or suspected case of child abuse.
- Seek help if you feel you are at risk of abusing a child.
- Be a friend to a child or parent in need.
- Alert others to the problem. Many don't recognize or understand the effects of physical, sexual and emotional abuse and neglect.
To break the cycle of abuse, CAPA provides counseling to children and their families after abuse has occurred. When a child is able to heal from abuse and learns how to keep her/himself safe, the chance of additional abuse is greatly reduced. CAPA also provides Family Support Services and Educational opportunities that help reduce the risk factors that cause abuse/neglect before it occurs.
Tips for Parents
Below are some tips to help parents prevent or detect abuse:
- Be involved in your children's activities.
- Notice when someone spends a lot of time with your child. Talk with your child about what they do, who else is there, what kind of games they play, etc.
- Believe your child. Listen seriously and sensitively to what your child says.
- Teach your child to "Say no, get away, and to tell someone," if anyone tries to touch him or her inappropriately.
- Teach your child, "Your body belongs to you."
- Explain to your child not to keep secrets that feel scary or uncomfortable.
- Go through rules with your babysitter when your child is present.
Also remember:
- Bad things sometimes happen even when we do our best.
- Discuss abuse prevention in a constructive manner, just as you would other safety concerns. Fear does not keep children safe.
- If abuse occurs, it is not the child's fault.
- Report the abuse immediately and seek medical help.
- Remain calm and take what your child says seriously.